Last updated on December 28th, 2021 at 06:14 am
You are still thinking about your First love, Right?
That’s normal, no one could easily let those memories out of their minds. After all, we learn a lot many lessons from our first love.
Believe… First crush is a powerful thing and lasts the entire life. The first experience of anything is going to be our lifetime memory, that we just forget. And that’s a whole different story.
The first relationship is quite exciting as much as tensed over its probabilities.
As most of the first relationship started with having a crush and those regular chances that a person prefers to skip due to anxiety and negative thoughts.
And when finally, love is accepted one feels the best in the world and creates great lifetime memories.
Such a beautiful time of life indeed. Further sharing the most 10 things you learn as First love Life lesson.
Best Life lessons that First Love teaches us.
Someone who believes you
First love always comes and leaves with the great lesson of life. Your first relationship makes you understand that there is someone who can believe in you and understand your feelings, other than friends & family.
Someone thinks that you are cute and exciting person, they want to know more about you. It may happen that your friends are not trusting you and your family aren’t believing in your dreams, but there’s always someone who understands you and can see the possibilities in yourself.
Someone who never Bored you
When you are in your first love, you spend most…even the entire day with them and not feeling annoyed and bored, even if silliest talk you have. Your both are feeling that special to each other that neither one of you two, wants to be the one who cut the call first.
As you always want to say something to each other, along with your office’s boring story. (Applicable, only when it’s your first one and first few weeks.)
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Arguments can never be the enjoyable though
First love teaches you how to argue and later to hold own self back just to let other people win. Having such a debate with your friends you normally become so defensive to prove your point, to believe them you are right.
But in the case of first-time, you prefer to lose a bet, even if you have something powerful to say. Because you think advance and don’t want the other person to lose.
Sharing & Creating Secret stories
There are the ones with whom you can share anything & everything. You know family and friends for many years and still, there is something you don’t want to share with them.
Your first love teaches you to stay secretive and create some stores between. Probably you have some secrets within that you want to share with others, your first relationship is the one for that.
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Trust someone But Not everyone
No matter if your first crush story was a good memory or a disaster, it also impacts your future self. A person’s first-time love is something in which they have given everything possible, which later turns out to be an eye-opening one.
You receive a life lesson from your first love over, whom to trust and whom to not. Now you are not trusting everyone so easily, because of the past mistakes you made. No matter if you are still in friendship with a girl you loved, but at least you know your role in anything.
Surviving the hard times
It’s actually a first love that teaches you to become more self-reliant. Because it was you who handled you after the sudden break-up. No one but it’s you who make yourself out of that. Obviously, you don’t prefer to share your stories with someone even with your family and friends.
You know, it’s only you who can get the way out of it. First leave teaches you not to depend on anyone for your hard times. Plus, you don’t have to wait for someone to pull you out of it.
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Friendship always stays above the Relationship
Tell the truth, during the first relationship you have changed your schedule from a night out with friends to talking with your loved ones. So many excuses, just to spend more time with a new love. And later finally when love is over, you remind friends and prefer to be with them, to overcome the loss of life.
Whether your friends know about that or not, but you inside feel that friends are the ones who you got. The reason today you prefer friendship, rather than over-investing in a relationship, is because of the lesson from first love. Agree??
Can recognize the person from the first instance
You have given so much in the first relationship. You left your time, efforts, patience, ego and some sacrifices to make the other one feel good. But when everything is finally over, you come out with life learning.
A lesson to learn someone from the very first meeting. Sometimes, it becomes your way to judge someone before making more connections with them.
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How to love again, Properly this time
The best thing that first love teaches you is how to love someone. That’s the first time when you know the meaning of true love. Doesn’t matter how long it went, but ultimately taught you how it feels to be loved.
That supports your future self as well. Now you know how to make someone feel special. Also what to do and what not to in the relationship. Because now you learn how to care for others, especially for your loved ones.
First love doesn’t last, But its memories do.
How to leave properly
Your first love teaches you how to leave the relationship when things are not going well. Also to accept the contraction prevails in between. Now you don’t force someone to stay or not want another person to feel the exact same as you felt after your first relationship.
As a right one you value another person’s choice and live well, the reason you don’t force them for anything. Not only in a relationship, but in case scenarios when you have to leave or let go of a person you know how to give the proper ending.
Also Read: How Do You Know When You Love Someone?
Final thoughts
Love for the first time seems the most thrilling moment of life when in the early stage. And also may turn into a life-changing event, an unforgettable one. But at least that gives some good things in life.
No matter for you, the first relationship is a frustrating one OR the greatest memory, but you learned a lot from that. And those are not always hard life lessons.
Every relationship have positive aspects of life along with the negative one.
It can be one of the eye-openers in life, that person will never get rid of. But that’s completely one’s personality that how they take a lesson from first love. Whether they test someone before including in any such relationship or Be flexible one according to the someone they meet.
Whether they be the one who judges everyone with the past person or want to be the one giving great memories of life. It’s completely up to one’s personality and beliefs. And a question for you: What did your first love teach you? Let us know in the comment section below.
