We human, are Social animals. And we all like to be social. We like to be surrounded by others. Because we all have something to share with and want someone to be hear us. No one wants to live alone.
Meanwhile, Some prefer to stay lonely, because they feel exhausted to be with others. And rest are alone due to their behavior. It’s a personality or a behavior or individual skills that attract others to the one.
Here are common traits that make you a likeable person that be loved by everyone.
Be an Expert in your own area
Everyone likes to be with those who are knowledgeable, smart and yet Humble. People like to be with them from whom, they learn something worthy. An expert individual in his area attracts another beginner in the same area.
So because of acquiring knowledge and to reach that position, one like to be with the industry leader. Everyone looks at them as a Role model and a Leader to follow.
Friendly behavior that helps
Friendship doesn’t look at age & perfection. A friendly nature attracts many and makes them feel comfortable. They look at you as a good friend and a person, worth to spend time with.
Absolutely, everyone like to spend some quality time and for that, they are searching for the one who is just like them. Your friendly behavior gives them space and to open up, and reason to love you more.
Wear a Smile
Have that Smile always with you. Smile with your heart, and receive the same. A person likes to be with them who are the reason for their smile. Improve your sense of humor, that attracts people at you.
Make them smile, that’s it. But make sure, not to offend others. So better keep it up to a certain level only. Give them a reason to smile, you have no idea from what life has brought to them.
They like you if you listen them
Everyone here wants someone to hear them, to share things with them. We have a habit to talk more about us. But we forget that They also have something to discuss. Fact is, we speak a lot & listen less, in spite of having two ears & one mouth.
Remember, they have some to say. So listen properly, listen to what they have for share. If you listen to them properly, it makes them feel special and reason to be with you.
It’s your positive behavior that attract them
People want to be with them who have a positive approach to life. If you motivate them, if you put the inspiration in them, then they have a positive impression of yours. Be the one, who motivate others and show a positive sight of life. In the world full of problems & difficulties, everyone wants someone to give them a push to raise.
Make a habit to be on time always
Agree that you have that habit to reach at a meeting late all time. No matter it’s a friends gathering or work meeting, make sure to be on time. If you have a habit to reach there late, they take you as you haven’t value for them and this give them other reason to like you. Even your friends want you to be on time. Show your respect & interest in them, by reaching on time. Build some good habits that also their inspiration and bring a positive impact in their life.
People like the one who are confident
No matter what you do, Just do it by full confidence. People attracted by the one who fueled with confidence. It’s your confidence, that makes you a likeable one for them. Show your confidence and let them feel, too. Create an environment for them, so that they also feel the same. Do something, which raises their confidence & trust in own self.
And they’ll never forget. You don’t complain over the little things and adjust yourself accordingly the situation, also your nature to help other in same. This are the reason most other are like to be with you and don’t hesitate to ask your help.
You become like-able when you stay true to them
It’s been very tough to find the one who is your True friend. Everyone has friends have that Best friend, but in reality, they simply can’t trust them blindly. A true friend is the one who saves your name, in your absences.
If you are not able to find a friend like that, Be that one. Be the one, who is there in a hard time. Be that guy who can stop a person when he’s about to do something wrong, not supporting to do it.
Always ready to help them when they need
People usually prefer to be with those who have to support them. Your moral support can add value to one’s life. Say something positive to them, show them you are with them, show your support. If you are the one who supports others and gives the right direction in life, they tend to be with you.
Sometimes, a simple presence of yours can solve the problem of them and relieve them from negative mindset. Support them when they need, and they’ll return it back,too.
Just make them feel comfortable, any others don’t
Even a shy guy want to be with others. Yeah, they want to be with others, but simply can’t find the one who makes him comfortable. If you make others feel comfortable around you, the chances are high that they want to be with you. Create an environment around you so that they feel free and like to be with you.
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