Life always keeps changing. And so the peoples are.
Positive life changes, take place after some hard phase.
And 20s are that time when you get to see that Positive transformation of your own self.
Undoubtedly, the 20s are the most crucial yet challenging age in anyone’s life. At the 20s age, a person have so many life realities that turn out to be a life longing lesson for them.
That’s the game of life.
Because In your 20s age, you basically learn from experiences. It’s your education, shaping your new personality.
Indeed you may have that feeling of lost in this young age, But It’s up to you how you take that surprise of life; you may take it as a normal thing or as a lesson to change your self for Better.
Believe this age of 20s is not only tough for you only, it’s happen to everyone.
But the thing that you need to look at is: Everything happening now will certainly Bring Positive change in your life, these are the things that make you strong.
That much strong to Reach your Goal you have in your mind.
Here are Positive life changes you notice in your 20s…
You start feeling that it is time to change your life, For Better. (Enough is enough)
At 20s age, you realize that whatever you have been doing, ultimately adds no value in your life.
You have that positive feel like, now its time to modify own self. Now it’s time to utilize our own time for better, for Future. Instead of wasting it anyhow.
Now you invest your time in only those things which help you Grow.
You distance yourself from Negative people and things
As your understanding level increases, you prefer to cut off all the things holding you Down.
You keep distance from the toxic people and memories that impact your mental peace.
Now you are making a schedule and more than that you adhere to follow that.
Needful Positive changes in your 20s age, Isn’t it ??
Your focus change from Fun with friends… To Improve for yourself
Those late-night movie shows and all chilling with friends don’t help your life, that what your inner 20s feel.
Now your focus starting to shift from chill time to reading and any productive purpose.
You are becoming a positive soul who just don’t grow alone, But helping own 20s friends to change positively.
You starting care for your family/Now you understand the value of family (Family First)
We are so Busy in growing, We just forget our parents also Becoming Older.
At 20s age, now you realize that thing.
You start valuing your Family, and realizing that your family is the one who you got.
This point you understand from those other ones who you thought, are you own. Until you see their true faces.
now you spend more time with family by discussing positive things happening in life. Indeed you become a Family man.
Now you Become Karma Believer
As you get younger, you also become a responsible and caring person.
Now you understand that whatever you do today, you have to face that tomorrow.
All your concern is to Do good and you return the same.
Your attitude of “Taking Revenge” turns into, “Leave them to own KARMA.”
You also serious about career.(Career calling)
School, Colleges, internships and now it’s time to create a big picture. Isn’t it?
After gone through the educational system, now you realized that what is your interest is?
What’s your passion is?
And in which area you want to achieve expertise?
You really become more sincere for the career, that’s great.
20s you, Becoming more concerned to career and start taking action to be successful.
Now you no longer feel bad, if anyone cheat on you or did bad to you.
In your 20s age, you already have significant experiences that taught you how to deal with the negative people.
As already stated you are now Karma believer, so you let the Karma punish them for own deeds.
Instead of spending valuable minutes of your life in never-ending arguments, you decide to move on.
All you know is…to maintain that Positive state-fo-mind.
You get to know the value of money.
As you start earning in your 20s, now you understand it Cost time & efforts to bring money in your pockets.
Now you realized how your parents had fulfilled your desires, for which you always complain. And those sacrifice your parents have made.
You respect your parents for providing all things which you desire, just for your happiness.
(Positive 20s) Now you be life:
“That was not my NEED that was my DESIRES.”
You understand that your parents were right about your choice of the friends.
Before mid-twenties,You get to know true face of the people to whom you labeled as Best friends.
Believe or not but your parents identify which are your true friends, in very first meetings.
They understand who will benefit you in life and who are costs you in life.
A betrays and cheating from your so-called Fake-friends make you realize that.
Now you trust only to your family and true friends and no one else.
As you have enough experience up till now with different peoples, you prefer to trust only family and true friends only.
You make others feel like you blindly trust them, But in reality, you don’t.
This way you identify, who are ready to help you and who actually have care for you.
You prefer to do what you passionate about, instead doing just for money.
Even though you receiving a good amount of money each month from Job, Still you’re not happy.
Because 20s you think, this is not the work which you want to see yourself doing for rest of your life.
All you wan to do is leaving high paying job, so that you can fulfill your passion and live life on your own terms in 20s.
Most 20s take that advantage of energy and time, to explore new things and reach that Purpose of own life.
Already have wasted too many years of your life, But not anymore.
Most common positive change for any 20s, is they now start valuing their TIME.
Sooner or later, you will realize that you already have wasted so much time of your life.
A valuable time that you can invest in the things that makes you Better.
Make sure, you wake up before it’s too late.
You are becoming serious about your Life.
Now you are taking your life seriously in your twenties.
Not in terms of getting serious at everything. But in terms of identifying what priorities you have, what are the distractions.
Most of all you understand the difference between, Needs and wants; Demands and Desires; Good and Bad.
Which imporves your making own life decision, wisely with Positive outcomes.
Your speech reveals your level of maturity
You are mature now and that can be shown by the way you speak with others.
Because you have ability to know when to speak and whom to.
And you also know what words to receive from others, with Right tone and mood.
Everyone can see the signs of a mature person in you, with your voice tone change.
You enjoy your own company rather than being with the wrong one.
A Bad past is a great teacher in anyone’s life.
You also were gone through a bad phase of life. And that reveals the actual face of the person who claim as your “that one person”.
Due to that, you simply don’t trust anyone.
Spending time alone and enjoying your own company, are your favorite spare-time activities.
It may happen that you have opportunity to fall in love again but mentally you just tired of those things. And don’t want to leave this freedom you have right now.
Career and Family is the things in that you want to spend more time with.
Priorities are now changing from late-night parties to wake up early morning to accomplish goals in mind.
You have decided a certain plan to follow and to do something that makes your family feel proud of you.
Your search history changing to career tips, from games to play and movies to watch, that a Great positive life change. Indeed.
You start keep yourself away from any gossip/ discussion related to your marriage.
Once you completed your college and about to settle in a job.
Now everyone around you give you another target, and that is to get married. Soon.
As you are busy with finding the purpose of your life, you don’t want to put yourself in those marriage discussions that your relatives and neighbors have with your parents.
Deep inside you wish to leave all the things or current life and start new life in a new city or new country alone.
And with this, all of 20s will definitely relate to.
You don’t want to take the extra burden given to you by society in terms of secure jobs, Marriage, having kids and all.
inner you feeling like when you have enough money, you will leave all these and start a new life far away from the home.
Because you find that’s where you can do what you really want.
You are making plan to staying away from home, just to get rid of everything panic you.
You are changed now and start enjoying being with your own.
This is the time when you start enjoying our own company.
All you want to do is staying in own room and doing the things for your passion and to learn something new.
At this 20s age, you came to know that you need to take care of your own self.
You better to invest in your Growth, Self-improvement.
You make a very serious plan of what to achieve your goals.
You are mature now.
That the reason you becoming more dedicated to your career plan, those plans you have made two years ago.
Now this time, all your goals seem important for you before anything and anyone.
You start making a connection with the one who are elders than you to learn more about the things which you want to know.
As your level of maturity increased. All you want is to learn more.
Your goal is to follow that right leader who have walked the same path, you about to begin.
And why not?? In your twenties, you really need a leader to whom you have to follow and show you a right way.
Your usage of Social media shifted from targeting people to targeting audience.
You are now not that college-going kid who gone through every social media to find a person they like to meet.
A way of using a social media is changed in your twenties than in teen ages, you use social media either for your marketing campaign or to get business ideas.
You are using social media for a productive purpose.
Also to get the life inspirations instead of increasing a friends list to impress others.
You becoming mature day-by-day and that amazes a people around you.
Due to several lessons, a life gave you in your twenties, you become more mature now.
You have completely change yourself positively and you become the responsible one.
And that may shock the people, knowing you from many years.
You start taking your responsibilities, and also of family’s as well.
As a mature man, now you start taking own life responsibilities.
Not only that you also become responsible for your family.
In your 20s age, your goals is to let your parent leave their job. Because you are now ready to take their responsibility.
This positive change in yourself makes them really feel proud of you.
This is not an end list; it’s only a summary of the major things happen in life at 20s age, as per my knowledge and my own leanings.
You can suggest more if that are also important which we can relate to.
-Keep your ears open, life has something to say you.
-Keep your eyes open, life has something to show you.
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